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feel like some people in your life are NOT happy for your weightloss? They either make snide comments about it, or dismiss it altogether... I'm very blessed in that I only have a couple people in my life who appear to feel this way...I just wish I could understand why. Do they prefer the "fat" Tanya? Have I changed? I think I'm still the same person as I always was. Perhaps it is their own insecurities. Maybe my weight helped them to take focus off a flaw they have in their own life? I dunno....I just got to thinking about this today. Not sure why, but I feel like I have to figure it out. If you are reading this blog, then please know I am not referring to you!! I just have a couple people in my life that I thought I was fairly close with who never even ACKNOWLEDGE that I've changed. I know life is not all about me, but come on! I've lost a person the size of my Dad's sister!!!
OK, pity party over - I do have an amazing support system and wonderfully amazing friends and family, so I'll focus on this now. I just wondered if anyone else experienced this?
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I think you hit the nail on the head when you said it might be their insecurities. Another thing I've noticed, and it'squite sad, but there are a lot of people out there that just aren't capable of being happy for others. You're not like that so it may be strange to you :-) It's something that's been really bothering be a lot lately and I have been trying to figure it out myself. Don't let it get you down...you're doing a fantastic job on this difficult journey and I'm very proud of you! Can't wait to see you in person someday and see the changes :-)
Thanks Kavita :-) How's your journey coming along? Must be so hard running after a little one!!!
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